http://www.beyondbehaviors.com Personal Development through Good Emotional Health Thu, 28 Aug 2008 17:05:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/role-of-self-importance-in-pursuer-distancer-relationship/#comment-4007 Maggie Thu, 15 May 2008 14:05:28 +0000 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/the-role-of-self-importance-in-the-pursuer-distancer-relationship.htm#comment-4007 Sadly, I was married to such a person. Whenever my appearance or behavior was not what he wanted, he distanced himself from me. This was an extremely difficult situation as I tried to raise our 3 sons to respect women for who they are, no matter what they look like. (I actually receive plenty of positive feedback about my appearance, by the way.) When there was disagreement or conflict in our realtionship, he would distance himself from me and the kids by staying late at work or social activities. Ironically, I am thankful to be able to say I was married to him. My life is so much better without him! Sadly, I was married to such a person. Whenever my appearance or behavior was not what he wanted, he distanced himself from me. This was an extremely difficult situation as I tried to raise our 3 sons to respect women for who they are, no matter what they look like. (I actually receive plenty of positive feedback about my appearance, by the way.)
When there was disagreement or conflict in our realtionship, he would distance himself from me and the kids by staying late at work or social activities.
Ironically, I am thankful to be able to say I was married to him. My life is so much better without him!

]]> http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3658 Steve Nguyen Mon, 21 Apr 2008 21:26:31 +0000 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3658 You are correct. "Back then" refers to at that period of time. It's an easier way to say the same thing. You are correct. “Back then” refers to at that period of time. It’s an easier way to say the same thing.

]]> http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3653 Anonymous Mon, 21 Apr 2008 14:32:59 +0000 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3653 Hi all, I am not english speaking. Can someone tell me what dos "back then" term mean? Probably iy means something like 'at that time/era'? Is this OK? Hi all, I am not english speaking.
Can someone tell me what dos “back then” term mean?
Probably iy means something like ‘at that time/era’?
Is this OK?

]]> http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3636 Steve Nguyen Fri, 18 Apr 2008 02:47:42 +0000 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3636 Arielle: Thanks for your comment. No worries, I'm not offended. This post was meant to be a reminder to be thankful. I think we are arguing about the same thing. Again there's a difference between learning and appreciating our past and dwelling on it. Arielle: Thanks for your comment. No worries, I’m not offended. This post was meant to be a reminder to be thankful. I think we are arguing about the same thing. Again there’s a difference between learning and appreciating our past and dwelling on it.

]]> http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3633 Arielle Shickedanz Thu, 17 Apr 2008 21:38:22 +0000 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/life-was-simpler-back-then/#comment-3633 This is such crap we need to thank the Lord that we are actually still alive and stop thinking about the past. Not try to be rude but we do I have already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is such crap we need to thank the Lord that we are actually still alive and stop thinking about the past. Not try to be rude but we do I have already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

]]> http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/my-last-post-why-im-retiring-from-blogging/#comment-3603 Steve Nguyen Sat, 05 Apr 2008 20:02:55 +0000 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/my-last-post-why-im-retiring-from-blogging/#comment-3603 Thank you Gus. I think about you and Cinta and Saipan all the time. In fact, my daily ritual is to check the Saipan Tribune and Marianas Variety everyday. Hope all is well in your part of the world my friend. I miss you guys so much! Thank you Gus. I think about you and Cinta and Saipan all the time. In fact, my daily ritual is to check the Saipan Tribune and Marianas Variety everyday. Hope all is well in your part of the world my friend. I miss you guys so much!

]]> http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/my-last-post-why-im-retiring-from-blogging/#comment-3602 Gus Fri, 04 Apr 2008 21:59:22 +0000 http://www.beyondbehaviors.com/my-last-post-why-im-retiring-from-blogging/#comment-3602 Blogger or not, life is still great with Steve & Miwa in this world!! : ) Blogger or not, life is still great with Steve & Miwa in this world!! : )

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